Introduction
Like many, I spend a lot of time and effort seeking a deeper connection to spirituality and a more meaningful way of life. Not an uncommon pursuit, by any means, and I’ve looked at many different third orders and other pathways and recently came across the Benedictine oblate tradition.
I’m not a Benedictine Oblate but wanted to write this post as a brief introduction and overview of the Benedictine oblate way, shedding light on the history, lifestyle, and wisdom offered to those who may be considering this ancient and transformative tradition.
The Benedictine Tradition
The Benedictine tradition traces its roots back to the 6th century when Saint Benedict of Nursia founded the Benedictine Order. Saint Benedict’s Rule, a set of guidelines for monastic living, became the cornerstone of the Benedictine way of life. Central to this rule are the values of stability, obedience, and conversion of life, which lay the foundation for a life of contemplation, work, and prayer.
Becoming a Benedictine Oblate
Like many orders, the Benedictine order has a way for laypeople to get involved if they feel the calling to do so. I.e., the Benedictine Oblate.
Benedictine oblates are individuals who are not monks or nuns but have chosen to associate themselves with a particular Benedictine monastery or community. The term “oblate” comes from the Latin word “oblatus,” meaning “one offered” or “dedicated.” Oblates commit themselves to live by the principles of the Benedictine Rule in their daily lives, integrating the values of prayer, work, and hospitality into their routines.
Oblates typically maintain their own homes and careers while striving to apply Benedictine spirituality to their everyday activities. They seek to deepen their faith, grow in wisdom, and cultivate a sense of inner peace through their association with a specific monastery.
I have another post on a book about The Rule which can be found here. It’s by Esther de Waal and it offers some great practical commentary on how lay people can apply the rule to their daily lives. The Rule is a spiritual classic but I found parts of it a little inaccessible. Her book was an immense help and illustrated how Benedict’s Rule connects with my daily life.
The Oblate Commitment
What does it mean to be an oblate? Becoming a Benedictine oblate involves making a formal commitment to a specific Benedictine community or monastery. Here’s a list (because I love lists):
- Regular Prayer: Oblates are encouraged to incorporate daily prayer into their lives, often using the Liturgy of the Hours or other forms of prayer as practiced by the monks or nuns. Check out this post on the book of Christian Prayer.
- The Rule of Saint Benedict: Oblates commit to living by the principles of the Rule of Saint Benedict, striving to cultivate qualities such as humility, obedience, and stability in their lives.
- Community and Hospitality: Oblates often participate in the community life of the monastery, attending retreats, workshops, and gatherings whenever possible. They also extend Benedictine hospitality to others, reflecting the monastery’s welcoming spirit.
- Support: Oblates provide support to the monastery, both spiritually and materially, according to their means and abilities.
Benefits of Oblate Life
Becoming a Benedictine oblate can offer numerous benefits:
- Spiritual Growth: Oblates can experience spiritual growth and a deepening of their faith through regular prayer and the guidance of the Benedictine tradition.
- Sense of Community: Oblates become part of a supportive and welcoming community of like-minded individuals who share their values and beliefs.
- Balance: The Benedictine way of life emphasizes the importance of balance between work, prayer, and rest, helping oblates to find equilibrium in their busy lives. Who doesn’t need more of this?
- Wisdom and Guidance: The wisdom of the Rule of Saint Benedict provides practical guidance for navigating the challenges of modern life with a sense of purpose and peace.
Conclusion
Becoming a Benedictine oblate offers a unique opportunity for individuals seeking a deeper connection to their spirituality and a more meaningful way of life.
Through the wisdom of Saint Benedict’s Rule and the support of a Benedictine community, oblates can find balance, purpose, and a path to inner peace in a world often filled with chaos and distractions.
There are many third order communities out there and if you are looking for one, maybe consider exploring the Benedictine oblate tradition as it could be a transformative and fulfilling choice. But, like anything along these lines, spend some time in prayer to really help determine if it is the choice that God wants for you.
If you happen to be in Missouri or the area around Kansas City, Conception Abbey has an oblate program that you can look into. This is the closest one to my neck of the woods.
Thank you for reading!