A Journey Never Finished
I am intrigued by Carmelite spirituality. I think that it “fits” me but I don’t know that I can articulate why. From what I understand, this is not an atypical response to the Carmelite way.
In my head, I picture cloistered nuns and monks in smoky, dimly lit monasteries high up in the mountains. This probably exists, but I’m guessing it is not the norm.
What is the norm, apparently, is that many great saints and contemplatives have come from the Carmelite orders. St. Thérèse of Lisieux, St. Teresa of Avila, and St. John of the Cross to name only a few.
In this post, I hope to help you discover that at the heart of this spiritual path lies a profound belief in God’s presence in every aspect of our lives, emphasizing the importance of prayer, silence, and contemplation as means of fostering a deeper union with the Divine.
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A Path Dimly Lit
Rooted in the rich history and traditions of the Carmelite Order, this spirituality offers a unique approach to Christian mysticism and a transformative way of living out one’s faith.
I think that’s what I find most attractive about it. It is a deeply personal and intimate approach to divine union. On the surface it seems like a “quiet” approach but the union that is fostered is like an unquenchable flame (sorry for the mixed metaphor).
The origins of Carmelite spirituality can be traced back to the 12th century when a group of hermits settled on Mount Carmel in the Holy Land. Inspired by their devotion to the Virgin Mary, these early Carmelites sought to live a life of simplicity, prayer, and solitude.
Over the centuries, the order has evolved and expanded, with the help of many notable figures.
A Contemplative Journey
At the heart of Carmelite spirituality lies the practice of contemplation.
Carmelites believe that through prayer and silent reflection, individuals can enter into a deep communion with God, experiencing His presence and love in profound ways. Contemplative prayer is not merely a recitation of words or requests, but a receptive openness to God’s presence, allowing Him to speak to the depths of one’s soul.
I sometimes find that the most effective prayer is, silence. Just sitting, waiting on His word. For many years, I filled my prayer time with words and lengthy petitions (the 15 prayers of St. Brigid occupied me for almost a year). Lately, I find that that approach often falls short and the most profound moments come in silence.
It is tempting to think that not doing something in prayer is not effective. How is God gonna know what we want if we don’t tell ‘im? You know whad I mean? Yet, I’ve found it to be quite dynamic to say and do just, nothing. Think, 1 Kings 19:11-13.
St. Thérèse of Lisieux
Carmelites emphasize the importance of finding God in the ordinary moments of life.
Inspired by the teachings of St. Therese of Lisieux, known as “The Little Flower,” Carmelite spirituality embraces simplicity and humility. The “Little Way” encourages individuals to offer even the smallest acts with great love, recognizing that holiness can be found in the most mundane tasks.
I read somewhere that she used “sacrifice beads” and each time she completed an act (a “present” for God), she would advance a bead. I’ve tried this practice off and on with some homemade beads but often disappointed myself when at the end of the day, only a few beads had advanced towards the Crucifix at the end of the string. I should probably get back into it.
If you haven’t read her autobiography, The Story of a Soul, it is well worth the effort.
By embracing a childlike trust in God’s providence, Carmelites seek to live in the present moment, fully attentive to His presence in every aspect of life. St. Therese is a great model of this.
The Dark Night
Carmelite spirituality acknowledges that the spiritual journey is not without its challenges.
Drawing from the writings of St. John of the Cross, Carmelites recognize the reality of the “Dark Night of the Soul.” This period of spiritual desolation and purification is seen as an opportunity for growth and transformation. It is through these dark nights that individuals are invited to surrender their attachments, purify their desires, and deepen their reliance on God’s grace.
I’ve seen a lot of folks who seem obsessed with this dark night of the soul concept. Seemingly hanging onto it as if it validates some truth. I suppose it does represent a signpost on the path but I don’t know why the concept of the dark night seems to be so appealing seemingly for its own sake.
I was there, I’m sure, but consolation and desolation comes and goes. God is with us always. Faith isn’t feelings. Rant over. I suppose I should add that a spiritual director is crucial with helping navigate these waters. An unhealthy obsession here can lead to a shipwreck.
Living the Carmelite Way
Carmelite spirituality is not confined to the walls of monasteries or cloisters. It is a way of life that can be embraced by anyone seeking a deeper connection with God.
Carmelites invite individuals to integrate their contemplative experiences into their daily lives, allowing prayer and silence to inform their actions and relationships. Whether in the midst of busy schedules or solitude, Carmelites strive to cultivate an awareness of God’s presence, fostering a spirit of charity, simplicity, and detachment.
There are pockets of Lay Carmelites here and there. It is a third order organization composed of people who choose to live the Gospel in the spirit of the Carmelite Order and under its guidance.
They often wear the Brown Scapular which I wrote about here. They also try to participate in the daily celebration of the Eucharist and should spend about one half-hour in meditation each day, reflecting on the Scriptures. Many Lay Carmelites also pray the morning and evening prayers from the Liturgy of the Hours.
I wrote about Divine Intimacy, here, written by a Carmelite. It’s a good, daily read that helps immerse me in spiritual thought.
Unfortunately, there isn’t a Carmelite third order anywhere near me. Maybe someday. But I can still practice the principles.
I came across another expression of Carmelite spirituality at Mary’s Secretary. She doesn’t actively post on the blog anymore but it has a lot of great resources and references that you won’t find anywhere else. I think she is pursuing a hermit’s path now but I’m not sure. She has an Etsy shop that she maybe uses to provide some supportive income. I enjoyed reading about her journey and pray for her from time to time.
Conclusion
Carmelite spirituality offers a path of deepening intimacy with God through contemplation, simplicity, and a willingness to embrace the challenges of the spiritual journey.
What I like about it is that it directly invites individuals to seek union with the Divine, finding meaning and purpose in the ordinary moments of life.
Whether one chooses to fully embrace the Carmelite way of life or incorporate elements of this spirituality into their own faith journey, the wisdom and practices of Carmel can inspire individuals to live with greater depth, love, and reverence for God’s presence in their lives.